

Dear Cara and Dave - Today we can marry in gardens, registry offices, cathedrals,at the beach or a host of other venues. Typically these focus on the joining of a man and woman together in marriage until 'death do us part'. They can be very 'wordly' in nature with the emphasis on glamour and human symbals of beauty.
How is marriage in the Temple different? We call the Lord's way of marriage the 'Sealing ordinance' or 'being sealed'. While a civil marriage allows you to be married for time only in this life, the sealing ordinance makes you eligible to have your marriage last forever.
With a civil marriage the Bride and Groom make certain promises to each other and then can legally live together as man and wife under the laws of the land.
In the Temple you make covenants and promises to Heavenly Father. The authority for the promises in a celestial marriage comes from God. The word 'sealed'refers much more than just the uniting of a man and a woman. it also indicates God is putting his 'stamp of approval' upon the Priesthood ordinance. It is an ordinanceestablished by God performed under the power of the Holy Priesthood.
As you participate in the ordinance of Celestial Marriage there are 4 elements
1. Individual coveneants and blessings - you make promises, committments and covenants with your Heavenly Father individually and receive blessings based on your own worthiness. These can't be negated by an partner who may not stay faithful and obedient.
2. Joint covenants and Blessings - Together you also make these promises etc to Heavenly Father and jointly you will receive blessing based on your joint worthiness. The continued faithfullness is essential if the promised blessings are to be received jointly.
3.Joining in celestial marriage - This element qualifies you to live together as husband and wife both under the laws of the land and to be united forever, forming a family unit that if you are faithful and obedient, will last forever.
4. Blessing for children born under the covenant - Your children will be entitled to the blessings of Abraham including , the Gospel, the Priesthood, Celestial Marriage and Eternal Life.
We learn form revelation that the Sealing Ordinanceis a requirement for Exaltation, which means living with God in the highest degree of heaven, where the power of continuing the family unit thro'out eternity exists.
Now we can see why' The Lord's Way of Marrige' is so important. It is only performed in Holy Temples by someone who possess' the sealing power.
I will write again soon about 'How we prepare and Who can attend this sacred ceremony', but for now, let me say this.
Mum and I are looking forward to this special day on Dec 6. We love you both and anticipate the joining of the 2 of you in the Temple
Love dad xoxo